It sounded like a truly terrible idea from the get-go -- Solicit video submissions from absolute strangers, pick one of them, and then put myself into said stranger's hands for a week, someplace I've never been. I hadn't been paying attention when the network suggested it, and I looked at the prospect as a far away, slow moving train that would hopefully never arrive and figured that in any case, it could be finessed. If I actually had to go somewhere with a fan, I'd pick someplace close and easy.
But the train was here, now. A decision had to be made. And Buffalo was looking like a mighty strong contender. Out of thousands of often terrifying submissions, dark figures muttering at the camera from blood-freckled cellar rumpus rooms, there were actually a few really good ones. Nelson Starr's admirably deranged ode to Buffalo was a snowy masterpiece -- if limited in its culinary offerings. It had the advantage of being close. And that it kind of "rawked".
Augusto Elefanio's enthusiastic plea to take him along to the Philippines, so that he could reconnect with his roots, was also excellent and heartfelt and might get the masses of Filipinos who've been (understandably) hectoring me ("Why haven't you been to my country yet?") finally, off my back.
Eric Rivera suggested Thailand -- from a kick-boxer's perspective, in an articulate, compassionate video presenting a place that was already familiar to me and well known for its outrageously varied and delicious cuisine.
And then there was Danya Alhamrani's earnest, professional looking tape urging me to join her in Saudi Arabia -- just about the last place I would ever have considered going.Unfortunately, for my plans to basically rig this whole, shameful project, to pick some marginally comprehensible, and relatively unthreatening fan and spend a few days shooting footage of me comically avoiding the contest winner -- in like, Bermuda, or Montauk, Danya's video was just so damn good. And Saudi Arabia seemed like such a difficult, even foolish option.
I mean, let's face it, how much fun could it be? Most of the hijackers came from Saudi Arabia. They're mostly pretty fundamentalist Muslims! Women cover themselves head-to-toe in black. The men wear head dress and white floor length, skirty things! It's hot --really hot. There's NO BEER!! If any destination was predestined to suck, this was it.
But Danya Alhamrani is an extraordinary woman. And the fact that during finalist interviews, she pretty much challenged me to visit her country and still think ill of it, was well, pretty persuasive. She touched that obstinate streak of contrariness in me that little voice that's always telling me that if I'm sure of a thing -- and everybody agrees with me -- then I'm probably wrong.
And it's nice being wrong. One of the delights of travel is finding, again and again that all your preconceptions, all the conventional wisdom, everything you thought for sure was right -- is, in fact, wrong -- or at least, far from a complete picture. Saudi Arabia, it turned out, was fun. Really!
I urge you to take a look at producer Amy Teuteberg's excellent and provocative crew blog. There's not much I can add to that (and what you see in the show) -- except to lavish even more praise on the remarkable Danya, her friends and family. It's only right, I think, that a tough, independent Western woman's perspective should be most useful and relevant when talking about what the experience was like. It is women, after all, who are denied the right to drive, who must cover themselves in public. So, wheel over to the Crew Blog as soon as you can.
I can only tell you that standard male dress in the Kingdom, the "thobe", felt surprisingly ... liberating. Walking through my hotel lobby, there was a strange relief, a comfort in looking exactly like everybody else. And superb testicular ventilation.
And if there was one really big surprise, it's that so many Saudis we met had a sense of humor. This is not what you'd expect after watching "60 Minutes" or "Dateline" or various hard news descriptions of life in the Kingdom. Fact is we met a lot of funny, good natured, very, very generous people over there. They actually had the capacity to laugh at themselves. They were all too aware of how they look to outsiders. They watch "Friends" and "Oprah" and "American Idol".
Many, many of them were educated abroad. They were scrupulously devout in their faith without being humorless. It was a flawlessly organized and executed shoot -- thanks to newcomer producer Amy, the magnificent Danya, and Dania and many friends -- and in fact, a rollicking good -- if alcohol free -- time. I think a lot of people are going to be surprised by the show.
As a final note, we will, on some snowy winter day, shoot at least part of a show in Buffalo. And Nelson Starr shall surely be our guide. Bangkok is on the horizon for the coming season. And we would be remiss if we did not have Eric Rivera, with his unique perspective and unusual access along for the ride. Plus, my wife wants to take a week or two in mui tai camp there. And just as the Phillipines are long overdue for a show, Augusto Elefanio deserves to have his dreams come true.
So with luck, everybody, as they say, is a winner.
When you go to buffalo there is an amazing wine bar called the cabernet cafe and right across the street a local restaurant called the Creek View...located right on the creek its a really neat place and the food is great. Duffs is also a really cool place you cant go to Buffalo with out going there for some wings...and the pearl st. cafe!
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I watched the show today and ive learned that we cannot see the full picture of a country without a good guide like Danya who showed Anthony every corner and the hidden parts of the city, and was being so frank and open to share the Muslim cultures with him.
Are you accepting any more tapes? I wanna give it a shot.
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I was not a fan of this episode when it first aired but watched a rerun the other night. On second viewing it was very good.
It was my own fault that I couldn't look at Danya's life the way she lived it and accept it for what it is. My feelings of Western "superiority" clouded my ability to see a real, warm, engaging person named Danya showing her country to the world with fierce pride. Yes, despite her affability and laughter, Danya is fierce. And she has a lovely family and a good job. No matter what I think of the Saudi culture or its treatment of women, it's Danya's life and her choice to live there. I have a feeling if Danya wanted to she could pick up and move....and would.
This is why Tony has a show and I don't. He has the ability to see beyond borders (geographic and prejudicial).
So my apologies. Tony, you did a good job on this episode. I'm the one who fell sadly short.
If you ever get up to Buffalo think about stopping by Rochester or the Finger Lakes.We have a lot of interesting places through here,Restaurants,breweries,distilleries, and over 100 wineries.We also have a thriving gourmet culture and locally produced delicacies (outside of Anchor Bars Buffalo Wings).
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YOU AND DANIA IN JEDDAH IS MY FAVOURITE!!!
i just saw it this afternoon on Singapore channel 16!
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saw the show, saw the host, i know u tolerated, a desert I know. All the meat, don't mean a thing, without a bit of the alcohol thing.
I truly enjoy the show.
T think the Saudi Arabia is one of the country whose very suitable for business and more commercial aera.
Anthony! Firstly, I absolutely adore your sense of humor, your writing and of course the show. To date the selection of locations has been wonderful but a recent show about the Philipines made me wonder... hmmmm fans can make suggestions about locations? What must I do to get you to visit IRAN? ok ok...put aside the horrible visions that might race thru your mind of you, the boozing, partying, American sinner haha being chased down the street by an angry mob of Iranians... looking to make you their next hostage...This is not the case!
Persians are a kind, giving and compassionate people and we are known for our cuisine and hospitality... not to mention our beautiful women (but alas you are a married man haha)
Seriously though, you appear to be a well read and intelligent individual who is capable of maintaining a distinction between the idiocies of a political establishment and its people.
There are two faces to the present day Iran: what you see in the outside world which although conservative, is filled with history, beauty and a rich culture... and then there are things that go on behind closed doors, where the veils are removed, music is played, drinks are drunk, and life is celebrated in the most lavish sense. Hit Iran and taste the food. Travel the cities and villages. Please share the reality of my culture with the American people. We are so much more than a veil, goats and camels, and conservatism.
Best to you and thank you again for your consideration.
~Joujou
Anthony! Congrats on your wonderful show! I just really hope you have a chance to come up to Buffalo. It is a great city with a big heart and has amazing food! Buffalo would not have been the hardest choice, but to say it was an easy way out is a little exaggerated. Buffalo may not have weird food (as in camel) but Buffalo has tasty creations that is better in Buffalo then anywhere else. You don't have to come on a freezing day either, if you do decide to come up. During the summer Buffalo has 80-95 degree weather, which isn't as bad as 100 degree weather. All in all, try and make it to Buffalo sometime. It is really a great place to visit and have fun. P.S. Great job Nelson! Your videos where amazing and I hope they get around!
This was, without doubt, my favorite show. Your hostess was so charming and light of heart. I loved her and her way of being. It REALLY opened my eyes to her culture and her views of a "family oriented" culture. I am a very independent California girl and I was so happy to hear that she loves her culture and all that it has to offer. Please consider having her on MORE SHOWS. If not on "no reservations" then PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE give her her own show! I love her family and friends too.
this is the best show on the travel network. He does such an awesome job. He definitely goes to alot of interesting places that i love to see.
It is a great city with a big heart and has amazing food! Buffalo would not have been the hardest choice, but to say it was an easy way out is a little exaggerated.
ur show is great